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Calvin on the Christian Life

September 1, 2020

If you could sum up the Christian life in one phrase, what would it be? It seems an impossible task. The entire Christian life in just one phrase? After all, if you’ve ever explored a bookstore and walked down the Christian Living aisle, you know just how many books are written on the subject. Thousands upon thousands. Each of my own books fall under this category. So how could anyone sum it up?

In John Calvin’s Institutes of the Christian Religion, he sums up the Christian life in two words: self-denial.

Why self-denial? Calvin reminds us that we are not our own. “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own” (1 Corinthians 6:19). Our Savior redeemed us from slavery to sin and made us his own. We are united to Christ. We belong to him and are not our own masters. We now live for him. We are to let his wisdom and will rule our lives, not our own. Calvin writes: “We are God’s: let all the parts of our life accordingly strive toward him as our only lawful goal.”

A Life of Self-Denial

What does this self-denial look like? It’s the opposite of self-love. It is devotion to God. It is a life lived for his honor and fame. Calvin says self-denial is not about seeking the things that are ours, but that which is the Lord’s. We live for his glory. He writes: “For when Scripture bids us leave off self-concern, it not only erases from our minds the yearning to possess, the desire for power, and the favor of men, but it also uproots ambition and all craving for human glory and other more secret plagues.” For those of us who know the burden of the fear of man or who worship the idols of affirmation and success, the call to self-denial frees us from those things. It frees us from wondering what others think of us or for striving for the acceptance and affirmation of others. We already have God’s approval and acceptance. We are freed instead to live for God and his glory, to strive for the things that make him great and give him the honor he is due. This is gospel freedom!

Further, Calvin says this self-denial is seen in soberness (self-control), righteousness, and godliness. Paul describes this in Titus 2:11-14, ”For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.” God not only saves us by grace, he also trains us by his grace to put off our sin nature and put on self-control, righteousness, and godliness. We live a life of self-denial as we cast aside our former way of life, denying what comes naturally to us in our sin nature. We are new creations, re-made into the image Christ, the one who bore the cross for us and calls us to take up our own crosses and follow after him (Matt. 16:24).

These efforts at self-denial have an end in sight. In this Titus passage, Paul reminds us of our hope in glory. We live in self-denial as we wait for Christ’s return and eternal life with him. As Paul says elsewhere, we are in the world, not of it. We are pilgrims, traveling in this world as citizens of another country. And when Christ comes to bring us to our true home, we’ll shed our sin once and for all. Don’t you look forward to that day?

Benefits of Self-Denial

In the Institutes, Calvin also writes of the benefits of living a life of self-denial. One benefit is having the right attitude of humility toward others, of counting others above yourself (Phil 2:3). Calvin reminds us that all we have and all that we are come as a gift of God’s grace; we cannot boast in ourselves. We are called to honor one another, do good to one another, and show forbearance to one another.

Calvin says this self-denial necessarily leads to seeking the benefit of our neighbors. The more we deny ourselves, the more we seek to help others. We are open handed and generous with what God has given us. We help others, not because they are inherently good or because they deserve it, but because of the image of God in them, “the image of God…is worthy of your giving yourself and all your possessions.”  

Another blessing of self-denial is that is helps us bear adversity. Calvin says there are many hard things in life that take place: “various diseases repeatedly trouble us: now plague rages; now we are cruelly beset by the calamities of war; now ice and hail…” In the face of such hardship, Calvin says many wish they had not been born, they rail against God, and accuse him of cruelty. But for the godly, for those who know they belong to God, “he alone has duly denied himself who has so totally resigned himself to the Lord that he permits every part of his life to be governed by God’s will.” No matter what happens, we trust in the grace of God, knowing he will meet all our needs, for we are the sheep of his pasture.

I’ve only highlighted a few things from this section of Calvin’s Institutes on self-denial in the Christian life. His work provides great devotional reading and I commend you to it. Above all, Calvin emphasizes the grace of God in Christ for us. The work of self-denial is not an outward work, done in the strength of the flesh, but an overflow of the inner work of a heart transformed by the grace of God. Ultimately, it is the process of shedding our old selves, and putting on the new self. It is conforming to our Savior, Jesus Christ.

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A Prayer for Greater Love

February 11, 2020

Whenever I thumb through my old prayer journals, I notice a common theme. One prayer I pray the most. One thing I confess above others and one thing I ask for more than anything else . It’s not surprising really, since this prayer is related to God’s greatest command and what he created me to do.

What is that prayer?

For love.

I often find myself confessing to a lack of love, both for God and others. Sometimes I confess sins of idolatry—loving created things more than the Creator. Other times I confess not loving my family and others as I ought, being selfish with my time and energy, seeking my own wants and needs, complaining about my labors on behalf of others.

I also find myself asking the Lord to help me to love as he has loved me. To bear in me the fruit of love, through his Spirit. To love sacrificially, faithfully, and with humility. To love without expectation or condition. To love because he first loved me.

Perhaps you are familiar with such prayers. Here is one I wrote, asking the Lord for greater love.

A Prayer for Greater Love

Father in Heaven,

I come before you today humbled by your love for me. I read in my Bible from John 17:23 where it says that you love me as much as you love your Son. I paused to consider what that means. My finite mind faltered to grasp it. I just sat there overwhelmed and wonder-struck. You love me as much as you love your own Son? How can that be?

I thank you and praise you for your love for me in Christ. I thank you that before you spoke those words, “Let there be light,” you chose to love me. You set your heart on me. You decided to make me your own. I praise you because you are a God of love; John says you are love (1 John 4:16). Indeed, you’ve known love from all eternity; it’s what you’ve always shared within the Triune community. A love wherein each person of the God-head love, delight in, honor, treasure, and glorify the other. And you chose to share that love with your children whom you have created to love and worship you.

When I consider the love you have for me— when I look at the love poured out on me in Christ at the cross— all I can do is fall before you. Speechless. Humbled. Amazed.

Forgive me for not loving you with my whole heart. Forgive me for not loving my neighbor as myself. Forgive me for not forgiving others as I’ve been forgiven. Forgive me for being impatient and unkind. Forgive me for exalting myself and seeking my own glory and fame. Forgive me for not serving and giving and sacrificing for others.

Forgive me for the idols of my heart, for those things I look to in the hopes that they will give me what only you can give. Forgive me for treasuring things like comfort and pleasure, affirmation and adoration, success and work, family and fortune. Forgive me for setting them on the throne of my heart to worship.

I pray the roots of love would burrow deep in my heart and bring forth life. Help me to love with greater love. Help me to reflect and image you as I love others. Help me to radiate the love that lives within me through your Spirit to those around me. Help me to remove the idols of my heart and replace them with greater love for you. Help me to live out the love you’ve shown me in Christ in my thoughts, words, and deeds.

Your word says that love never fails. I thank you that even though my love for you falters and even though I flounder in my love for others, your love for me in Christ will never fail. It will endure to the end. Nothing can separate me from you.

Reshape my heart this day to love you and others. In the name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

In Prayer Tags prayer, love, God's love, love for others, confession
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